Buddy Check – are you OK?

“There is nothing much better than connecting with others and letting them know that you care.  We learned of members who were in poor health, needed assistance with VA benefits, wanted to attend meetings but had no means of transportation, and were home bound and lonely and could use a visit/camaraderie.”

Sherri Marquis, Public Affairs Director, Connecticut Post 101

I received a text message out of the blue from a new Legionnaire friend I met last week at Fall Meetings.  The Buddy Check text began as, ‘BUDDY CHECK, Sister!!! I hope all is well with you and family and you made it back safely.’ It meant so much to me that a peer had reached out to me to make sure I was OK and safe.  Buddy Checks matter!

Ninzel Rasmuson, Past Department of Utah Commander

This time of year, between Thanksgiving and Christmas, can be full of joy for so many.  It can also be a time of stress and depression to the veteran who is struggling to get used to life without a spouse, or the veteran who doesn’t like the image looking back at them in the mirror, or the veteran overwhelmed by health issues.

The holidays can be a joyful time, but they can also bring moments of reflection and challenge.  Please remember to reach out and follow up on Buddy Checks.  If you need someone to talk to, or simply want to connect, the 108 Chaplains are a call away.”

Don Hinst, American Legion Post 108 Commander.

It does not take any specialized training.  In most cases, all that is required is a caring heart and willingness to be available.  But, what do I do if the person I’m speaking to seems close to hurting themselves or may be suicidal?  VA S.A.V.E is a 19-minute course (video below) that teaches us how to reach out, connect, and potentially save a life.